I can’t really relate to much of anything you’ve written here, I’m sorry to say.

But I will say that I have never given any client, male or female, advice to suggest a sexual relationship straight out of the gate.

Building rapport and connection first is clearly a critical aspect of the seduction process.

What my male client failed to realize was that women desire sex just as much (perhaps more) than men.

And yet, he wouldn’t even approach a woman and say “hello”

His problem was that he didn’t take the responsibility of leading any of his interactions with women.

This particular woman was in the opposite position. She was leading men all day and didn’t want to lead another one in the bedroom.

Her husband probably wasn’t sexually direct online, or maybe he was, that’s not really the point.

The point is that if you have a desire to approach, date, or go to bed with a woman… you should lead the interaction.

And pay attention to how she responds.

Because it is a dance.

It is a game.

And you’re both playing weather you want to – realize it – or not.

You may as well have fun during the process.

Good luck out there.