Men Secretly Look For a Women Who Will do THIS

And it might make you mad if you can’t handle the truth about male psychology

Evan Kelly
4 min readAug 11, 2021


Photo by Keegan Houser on Unsplash

Men and Women are psychologically different.

That’s hardly a surprise to anyone who has ever been in a relationship.

Over the course of my time as a dating coach, I’ve noticed that many women tend to run into the same frustrating sticking point over and over with men.

Things go well in the beginning but then he starts to “pull away”

He seems distracted when he’s with you.

Is he fantasizing about other women?

Did you say or do something to turn him off?

You ask him if everything is okay.

He shrugs and says:

“Everything’s fine”

But everything is not fine.

And you know it.

So you press on, determined to “fix” the relationship.

But no matter how hard you try to get him to open up…

It just makes things worse.

Eventually, the relationship fizzles out and dies on the operating table.

So what went wrong?

It’s simple.

You didn’t understand the following critical piece of information.

A Man Spends Most of His Life Searching for a Woman Who Will Leave Him Alone

Read that sentence again.

A man spends most of his life searching for a woman who will leave him alone.

Confusing right?

Maybe even a little irritating.

When I’d tell female clients this little tidbit of information it would usually result in a reaction that went something like this:

“Are you fucking serious?”


I’m fucking serious.

If you’re starting to feel a quiet rage build deep inside your stomach to the point of reaching through your monitor, grabbing me by the throat, and calling me an asshole…



Evan Kelly

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