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Why Women Find You Creepy
And how to fix it in a way that will spark genuine attraction
During my time as a dating coach, one of the biggest issues I’d see men face over and over again was appearing “creepy” to the women they would approach.
I’d observe them carefully as they started to move in.
Each step forward lacked confidence…
Or way too much bravado.
Finally, they’d reach the woman of their interest and start talking.
That’s when my attention would shift to the woman’s body language.
She’d angle her body away from my client.
Her eyes would dart around as she forced small talk.
A nearby friend would then typically pull her away and leave my client lost in a state of confusion.
Ask a woman WHY she finds a particular man “creepy” and you’ll typically get a response such as:
“I don’t know… he’s just creepy!”
They may offer a vague explanation like:
“He looks creepy…”
But the truth is that it’s mostly an intuitive feeling they can’t fully explain with logic and reason. They feel uncomfortable in the presence of certain men and that’s all there is to it.
