You've made a lot of incorrect assumptions.
Let me correct you:
1) I was strictly a men's dating coach for 6 years but occasionally worked with women after they contacted me asking for help.
2) Business was really good. I stopped coaching in person because I got married and had children. Didn't feel like going out to clubs instructing men on weekends when I could be home with my family.
3) I found a passion for copywriting and affiliate marketing once I started selling $5000 to $10,000 coaching packages via email and found it easy to transition away from coaching.
4) I've written six figure promotions for big name dating coaches in the industry in both the male and female markets. I enjoy teaching other's how to do the same, hence my "side hustle"
5) Seems like either a lot of men just can't keep up with you or you enjoy using that as excuse so you can dismiss them. I'm not sure which. Either way I hope you find someone that earns your respect.
Good luck out there.